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September 9, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 30: One Month: The New Baseline
You did it. One month. On Day 30, we celebrate this incredible milestone, reflect on the profound changes that have already occurred, and set our intentions for the next 60 days of the journey.
September 8, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 29: A Letter to the Future
What do you want your life to look like at the end of this journey? On Day 29, we do a powerful exercise to solidify your commitment: writing a letter to your future self.
September 7, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 28: Planning for Storms
Recovery is easier when life is calm. But what happens when a storm hits? On Day 28, we get proactive and create a plan for navigating high-risk situations like travel, holidays, and high-stress periods.
September 6, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 27: The Productivity Trap
Have you replaced porn with workaholism? On Day 27, we explore the danger of the productivity trap and the crucial difference between healthy ambition and using work as another escape.
September 5, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 26: Finding Your Tribe
You don't have to do this alone. In fact, you shouldn't. On Day 26, we explore the critical importance of community and how to find a supportive tribe to accelerate your recovery.
September 4, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 25: The Danger of the Fantasy
You've stopped watching, but what about the movie in your mind? On Day 25, we tackle the slippery slope of fantasy and edging, and why it's crucial to starve the old pathways completely.
September 3, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 24: The Weight of the Past
Regret over lost time and past actions can be a heavy burden in recovery. On Day 24, we explore the vital role of self-forgiveness in moving forward and how to practice it.
September 2, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 23: The Gift of Boredom
We've been trained to see boredom as a problem to be solved instantly. On Day 23, we reframe boredom not as a threat, but as a gift—a quiet space where creativity and self-discovery can finally happen.
September 1, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 22: Reclaiming Intimacy
Porn gives a distorted definition of intimacy. On Day 22, we begin the journey of reclaiming it, exploring what true intimacy is and how to cultivate it outside of the bedroom.
August 31, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 21: The Social Gauntlet
Three weeks in! A huge milestone. On Day 21, we tackle a new challenge: navigating social situations where porn is joked about or normalized, and how to stand your ground with confidence.
Don't have time to meditate? On Day 20, we learn how to practice mindfulness in everyday moments, turning routine activities into powerful opportunities for grounding and stress reduction.
August 29, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 19: Fueling the Healing
What you eat directly impacts your mood, energy, and cravings. On Day 19, we explore the connection between nutrition and recovery and offer simple dietary tweaks to fuel your healing brain.
Poor sleep can sabotage your recovery by weakening willpower and increasing cravings. On Day 18, we explore why sleep is a superpower and how to build a routine that promotes deep, restorative rest.
Exercise is not just a distraction; it's medicine for a healing brain. On Day 17, we explore the powerful neurochemical benefits of physical activity and how to make it a consistent part of your recovery.
August 26, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 16: Your Digital Diet
Your phone can be your best tool or your worst enemy in recovery. On Day 16, we go beyond content blockers and create a 'digital diet' to build a healthier, more intentional relationship with technology.
August 25, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 15: The Great Flatline
Feeling numb, unmotivated, and questioning your progress? Welcome to the flatline. On Day 15, we explore this common and misunderstood phase of recovery and why it's a powerful sign of healing.
August 24, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 14: The Comparison Trap
Porn and social media create a world of impossible fantasies that can crush self-esteem. On Day 14, we explore the danger of the comparison trap and how to ground yourself in reality.
Do you turn to porn when you feel stressed or anxious? On Day 13, we uncover how this habit becomes a false friend for managing stress and learn healthier, more effective coping strategies.
Quitting porn can leave you feeling profoundly lonely. On Day 12, we explore the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and how porn acts as a counterfeit connection.
Feeling irritable, anxious, or just plain off? On Day 11, we explore Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) and why emotional turbulence is a normal, healthy sign of your brain healing.
You've accomplished something incredible. On Day 10, we explore the psychology of milestones and why it's crucial to consciously celebrate your progress to reinforce your new identity.
August 19, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 9: I Slipped, Now What?
A slip is not a fall. On Day 9, we dismantle the all-or-nothing mindset and create a practical, compassionate plan for how to recover from a relapse and turn it into a lesson, not a loss.
Shame thrives in secrecy. On Day 8, we explore the transformative power of accountability and guide you through the process of telling one trusted person about your journey.
The first weekend is a major challenge in recovery. Unstructured time can be a huge trigger. On Day 7, we create a simple, proactive plan to navigate the weekend with confidence.
August 16, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 6: The Great Exchange
Quitting porn leaves a void of time and energy. On Day 6, we reframe this void as an opportunity and explore how to fill it with meaningful, rewarding activities.
An urge feels overwhelming, but it's just a wave of sensation. On Day 5, you'll learn a powerful, practical technique called 'urge surfing' to ride the wave without giving in.
Ever feel like your brain is working against you? On Day 4, we explore the science of neuroplasticity—the incredible ability of your brain to heal and rewire itself away from porn.
Willpower is not enough. On Day 3 of your guided journey, you'll learn how to create a supportive environment that makes quitting porn easier by proactively managing your triggers.
August 12, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 2: How to Identify the Triggers That Drive Porn Use
Why does the urge to watch porn feel so automatic? On Day 2 of your guided journey, we uncover the science of triggers and give you a practical method for taking back control.
August 11, 2025
Your First 90 Days, Day 1: How to Quit Porn by Making One Powerful Decision
This is Day 1 of your guided journey to quit porn. Learn why the first decision is the most critical step and discover a simple, science-backed framework to build lasting motivation.
Discover a complete recovery plan to stop watching pornography, based on research-backed steps, supportive tools, and sustainable habit-building techniques.
Learn practical tactics to stop viewing porn, break the habit loop, and develop healthier coping strategies for lasting change.
Wondering how you stop porn addiction? Discover proven strategies, mindset shifts, and actionable steps to overcome compulsive habits and reclaim control of your life.
Feeling stuck in the cycle of watching porn? This guide offers actionable steps and mindset shifts to help you regain control and build healthier digital habits.
Ready to ask, 'How can I quit porn?' This comprehensive roadmap breaks down key stages and offers actionable strategies to support your journey toward lasting freedom.
Explore 50 compelling reasons to stop watching porn—boost your mental health, relationships, and self-esteem while reclaiming control and purpose.
Discover powerful prayers and spiritual practices to help you stop watching porn, inviting divine strength and healing into your recovery journey.
Understand the withdrawal symptoms of porn addiction and discover effective recovery strategies to navigate this challenging phase.
Discover practical steps to prevent bad video consumption on your phone, from app settings and blockers to habit-building and self-control techniques.
Learn Islamic principles and practical strategies to stop watching bad videos, with guidance from Quran, Hadith, and community support.
Learn Christian-centered strategies to stop watching bad videos, grounded in scripture, prayer, and community support for lasting freedom.
Follow this comprehensive support guide to recover from porn addiction, with practical steps, resources, and strategies for lasting change.
Learn actionable strategies to overcome pornography, break the addiction cycle, and build sustainable recovery habits.
Understand the realistic timeline to recover from porn addiction, including factors that influence recovery speed and long-term maintenance.
Understand the typical timeline for quitting porn, with realistic milestones, challenges, and strategies to support your recovery journey.
Discover that recovery from porn addiction is possible, learn about success factors, and explore practical steps to regain control and well-being.
Discover the profound physical, psychological, and neurological changes that occur when you quit pornography, backed by research and expert insights.
May 11, 2025
What Happens to Your Brain When You Stop Watching Porn? Neuroplasticity Explained
Discover how your brain recovers and rewires when you stop watching porn, with evidence on neuroplasticity and dopamine regulation.
Explore the biological, psychological, and social factors that cause porn addiction and learn how understanding these drivers can support recovery.
Discover the top 10 signs of porn addiction, understand each symptom's significance, and learn when to seek help.
Learn to recognize the key symptoms of porn addiction, from behavioral patterns to neurological indicators, and understand when to seek help.
Explore the timeline for rewiring your brain after porn addiction, including phases of neural adaptation and strategies to support neuroplasticity.
Learn about the timeline for dopamine receptor recovery after quitting porn, from initial withdrawal to full neurochemical restoration.
Explore the science-backed effects of quitting porn, from neurochemical changes to improved mental health and enhanced life satisfaction.
How Gen Z can understand and overcome the unique challenges of growing up with unlimited access to pornography.
Learn how to set up effective digital boundaries and customize your technology environment to prevent porn exposure and support lasting recovery.
Learn practical strategies to restore genuine connection and intimacy in relationships affected by pornography use.
March 15, 2024
Neuroplasticity and Recovery: Rewiring Your Brain
Discover how the science of neuroplasticity can be leveraged to overcome addiction and create lasting change.
February 10, 2024
Finding Dopamine Balance: Beyond the Quick Fix
Understanding how dopamine affects your brain and practical steps to restore natural reward systems.
Evidence-based strategies for preventing relapse and maintaining long-term recovery from porn addiction.